Someone dear to me – we’ll call her Jane – is in a relationship that I think is somewhere between very unhealthy and outright dangerous. The latest update on her and her boyfriend John read like an engraved invitation into The Drama Triangle. In my mind, Jane is the victim. John is the persecutor. It’s […]
Free Yourself from The Drama Triangle
Do you have a situation like this at work: a blaming, angry, screaming boss, a hardworking, helpless, hopeless employee, and a series of people stepping in to vilify the boss and/or commiserate with the hopeless employee? You might have it instead in your family feuds over whether your son should learn to skateboard, or an […]
Declare Your Independence
What area of your life is just not working? Where do you feel stuck, unable to create a different experience, a result you want? Let’s change that today. In honor of American Independence Day yesterday, we’re going to declare our independence and get out of this old rut. I’m exploring online dating right now, and […]